I'm Difficult

What is this?

This is a website run by S to talk about various sensitive topics, usually to do with gender and sexual identity.

Articles

"Biological sex" is a poor concession

Written by S on 13 December 2025.

In the march for trans rights, we have made a mistake by presenting a poorly worded idea: "biological sex" being solid, "gender expression" being the thing that changes. (read more)

Sexuality is not innate

Written by S on 18 January 2026.

It is true that one's own sexual and romantic attraction cannot be controlled, whether it is directed toward the same or opposite sex. It is also true that one cannot control a lack of attraction to either sexes. However, one's "sexuality" cannot be removed from the body and studied like one's internal organs or physical sex. (read more)